Do NOT get into a serious relationship because your lonely! Why? Because that relationship will fail! And miserably! I had to learn a very hard way that you must LOVE yourself before you could ever begin to love anyone else.
If you have known(or casually dated) this person for awhile, know their flaws or some of them, basically know who they really are and you still have this deep feeling of desire and love for them. Then by all means girl! Try and date him. As long as he treats you RIGHT, is honest, caring, hardworking.. (insert your must-have qualities) then what do you have to loose..
Do NOT jump in a relationship to feel “secure” because you believe he will take care of you and that’s a comfortable way to live. I haven’t heard this one to much but I have heard it more than once. DON’T DO IT. Just dont. Money and things will NEVER TRULY buy you happiness.
If you are an independent woman who knows how to care for herself( if needed), live alone, hang out alone, budget her money ect and he is just icing on the man cake then yes, you go girl!
Don’t settle in a serious relationship ONLY because you two have a child together.
Matter of fact that is one of the WORST reasons to jump in a serious relationship. You both will be terribly unhappy, filled with resentment and hate and eventually end up splitting up and making any idea of future peaceful coparenting nearly impossible. AND your child will suffer in more than one way. At the moment it may seem like the only option but if there is no love between you two then this one is the selfish decision and you should really think hard on it.
What’s your favorite DO or DON’T about starting a serious relationship? Leave yours in the comments!