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The 6 Most Important Steps to Creating a Successful Blended Family

 

If I were to ask you right now.

What was the MOST Important Part of Creating your Blended Family?”

What Would your Answer be?

Most people don’t understand the truly important aspects of creating a blended family. Not only creating it but creating your blended family to be SUCCESSFUL and to be LASTING!

 

When you’re trying to create your Blended family in the right way…it helps to think about your blended family as if you were….building a house.

When you think about it like building a house what would you start with first? Most people would say…PLANNING.

Planning Ahead is a VERY important part of creating your blended family, but a lot of times we don’t learn this step until after we are already in the process of creating our blended families.

If this is the situation you and your blended family are in, don’t freak out! You can still incorporate planning into the rest of the creation process and for future situations.

After you have the plans ready, what would you move to next?

If you want your house(aka your blended family) to be successful, you would need to, Create… Establish ..and Lay a Strong and Sturdy Foundation!

There are several different parts to this process of Creating, Establishing, and Laying a Strong and Sturdy Foundation for your blended family.

I will show you the parts that are needed to start the process below:

  • First, you need to Mend your Marriage. You can start this part by Learning to Properly Communicate using Active Communication and then by Being a Better Listener. Once you have accomplished that, you can continue by Nurturing your Relationship and keeping it renewed and alive!
  • Secondly, you HAVE to Make your Marriage a #1 Priority! This part can literally make or break your entire relationship and further your entire blended family!
  • Then, you need to find a way to always Stand Together as a United Front! This is especially important when incorporated in the next step, and with dealing with outside family issues, ex-issues and so forth!
  • Next, both of you need to Establish Clear Roles and Boundaries in and out of your Marriage! This has to be a joint effort and when presented to the children and anyone else, you must Stand as that United Front and make these roles and boundaries crystal clear to everyone!

If you and your spouse work as a team and utilize these steps, the chances for your blended families success will be MUCH higher than by not doing them! 

 

In, The Stepmom Survival Guide, I cover each one of these important parts of creating your blended family. I take each step and break it down fully so that you understand how to accomplish each one successfully.

Additionally, in The Stepmom Survival Guide, I provide you with thought-provoking discussion questions after each lecture.

Plus, I include activities to get several of the parts rolling for you like in the Mending your Marriage part and the Establishing Clear Roles and Boundaries part, just to name a couple! If you would like to learn more about, The Stepmom Survival Guide, and what all it can offer YOU, click here. (**FLASH SALE GOING ON NOW, LEARN MORE BELOW!**)

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Now I want to HEAR from you!! What is one of the MOST IMPORTANT parts of creating the blended family that you’ve found? Let us know in the comments below! 

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Now You No Longer Have To Wonder Whats Included In Being a Stepmom

When you hear the word… Stepmom…What all comes to mind? 

Is it just a woman, who is married (or in a relationship) with a man who has kids from a previous relationship? Or do you think of MORE…?

I hope you said MORE because being a Stepmom is entirely so much MORE than simply a word or name for a particular woman.

So what all IS a Stepmom? What things does a Stepmom deal with or have to handle?

Well, let’s cover a few things today that a Stepmom has to do or has to handle within her role!

First, when she becomes a Stepmom, whether she is also a Bio mom or she has NEVER been a mom before, she must learn to stepPARENT! 

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Now for those of you who don’t know, the part of becoming a stepPARENT is a HARD PART! 

You have to be sure your role is made clear by you and your spouse together as well as all boundaries, rules, and consequences You have to be open and willing to form a bond with the children, but only when they are ready too.

There will also be times when you have to deal with resistance and negative behavior from the kids as a way of them expressing themselves.

You and your spouse will need to start by evaluating and discovering each one’s personal Parenting Style Then, you’ll have to take it one step further, and figure out how to parent effectively despite differences between those styles. It is far from easy! 

When a woman chooses to become a Stepmom, she must also learn how to handle issues as a stepFAMILY, all combined together! 

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Being in a stepfamily comes with many struggles, but if handled properly, can be a beautiful experience.  Each family should start by acknowledging the Natural Adjustments Stepfamilies Experience.

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Another obstacle common to stepfamilies is known as, Adjusting to Stepfamily members schedules. 

While it may seem easy enough, this can turn into a very stressful issue if not addressed properly!

Creating and planning family activities and new family traditions is another part of being a stepFAMILY that Stepmoms have to figure out. Making sure to keep children’s favorite past traditions while incorporating new ones can sometimes prove to be difficult.

Some of the best solutions my own blended family and I have discovered have been found during discussions in regular family meetings.

 

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Choosing to become a Stepmom is a huge decision and shouldn’t be taken lightly.

The Stepmom role plays a very important role in the future success of your blended family. Sometimes it can be overwhelming and even exhausting! Be sure to reach out and seek support from other Stepmoms going through the same things you are.

If you haven’t already, join myself and other Stepmoms in my private Stepmom Facebook Group here, to start your search for support! 

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