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The 6 Most Important Steps to Creating a Successful Blended Family


If I were to ask you right now.

What was the MOST Important Part of Creating your Blended Family?”

What Would your Answer be?

Most people don’t understand the truly important aspects of creating a blended family. Not only creating it but creating your blended family to be SUCCESSFUL and to be LASTING!


When you’re trying to create your Blended family in the right way…it helps to think about your blended family as if you were….building a house.

When you think about it like building a house what would you start with first? Most people would say…PLANNING.

Planning Ahead is a VERY important part of creating your blended family, but a lot of times we don’t learn this step until after we are already in the process of creating our blended families.

If this is the situation you and your blended family are in, don’t freak out! You can still incorporate planning into the rest of the creation process and for future situations.

After you have the plans ready, what would you move to next?

If you want your house(aka your blended family) to be successful, you would need to, Create… Establish ..and Lay a Strong and Sturdy Foundation!

There are several different parts to this process of Creating, Establishing, and Laying a Strong and Sturdy Foundation for your blended family.

I will show you the parts that are needed to start the process below:

  • First, you need to Mend your Marriage. You can start this part by Learning to Properly Communicate using Active Communication and then by Being a Better Listener. Once you have accomplished that, you can continue by Nurturing your Relationship and keeping it renewed and alive!
  • Secondly, you HAVE to Make your Marriage a #1 Priority! This part can literally make or break your entire relationship and further your entire blended family!
  • Then, you need to find a way to always Stand Together as a United Front! This is especially important when incorporated in the next step, and with dealing with outside family issues, ex-issues and so forth!
  • Next, both of you need to Establish Clear Roles and Boundaries in and out of your Marriage! This has to be a joint effort and when presented to the children and anyone else, you must Stand as that United Front and make these roles and boundaries crystal clear to everyone!

If you and your spouse work as a team and utilize these steps, the chances for your blended families success will be MUCH higher than by not doing them! 


In, The Stepmom Survival Guide, I cover each one of these important parts of creating your blended family. I take each step and break it down fully so that you understand how to accomplish each one successfully.

Additionally, in The Stepmom Survival Guide, I provide you with thought-provoking discussion questions after each lecture.

Plus, I include activities to get several of the parts rolling for you like in the Mending your Marriage part and the Establishing Clear Roles and Boundaries part, just to name a couple! If you would like to learn more about, The Stepmom Survival Guide, and what all it can offer YOU, click here. (**FLASH SALE GOING ON NOW, LEARN MORE BELOW!**)

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Now I want to HEAR from you!! What is one of the MOST IMPORTANT parts of creating the blended family that you’ve found? Let us know in the comments below! 

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The answer technically would be no one.

But, that is what you are likely to do if you are always in search of perfection or you search for acceptance or approval from everyone in order to find HAPPINESS IN LIFE.

Here, imperfection is NOT defined as the opposite of perfection…

Imperfection here is rather a “freedom from perfection”.

That is what we all ultimately want – to be free from the chains of unrelenting perfection or acceptance.

Instead of searching for the nonexistent perfection, you should learn to fly on the wings that you have been given.

This is NOT referring to the ones that you believe everyone wants you to have or you believe you need to be “enough“. 

It’s time to let go and just “be” you.

It’s not as easy as it sounds! It’s probably one of the harder things in life.

Self-help books and courses similar to this, always talk about letting go, but they never quite get to the instruction part.

That’s one main way this course is different. We go step by step through the ENTIRE PROCESS start to finish! 

We all want to rise above the stigma that is grasping at us, day after day, for an unattainable perfection in every area of our lives.

You probably wonder,”Obviously, some people have reached that point or they wouldn’t be writing books about it, right?”

Heck no!

I created this course to help you because I have been through this battle already. 

Unfortunately, I also faced most of this battle ALONE.  I would never want anyone to go through that alone(or period, if I can help it) like I did.

That’s the MAIN reason I created this course!

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We ALL need support and encouragement in times like this, which is what you’ll get plenty of throughout this course!

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Here is a brief summary of what you’ll learn:

  • WHY you may need a Start Over in your life, HOW to decide, and a step by step on the entire Starting Over Process
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Still not completely convinced this course is for YOU?

Let me lay it out plain and clear for you! This course is right for you if: 

  • Your a woman struggling with Self-esteem, Self-image and/or Self-worth issues of any kind!
  • Your a woman is just plain out TIRED  of being UNHAPPY
  • Your a woman who wants to feel like herself again
  • Your a woman who wants a chance at living a happier, healthier, less stressful life that she truly loves and enjoys!

As amazing as this course is, it is NOT for everyone! So allow me to lay that out clearly as well!

This course is NOT for you if: 

  • You feel Happy & Completely Satisfied with your life, AS IS!
  • You have NO Insecurities about yourself, and you are fully Confident
  • You don’t want or need a happier, healthier, less stressful life you would LOVE and enjoy!

Or will you let this course and another precious day and allow yourself to continue feeling hopeless and forgotten? Or worse?

The choice is yours! But I do hope you choose wisely!


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I hope these resources help you on your personal Stepmom journey and direct you toward success as a Stepmom! This particular journey isn’t easy, but at A Blended Momma, you have support and someone to seek help from whenever you need it! All you need to do is ask!

What specific issues or events are affecting you today?

Is there any topic, issues, struggle etc YOU need specific help or support on?

I would love to hear from you and help you anyway I can, feel free to use the comment section below to express your thoughts! 

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